{"id":4661,"date":"2016-05-12T12:26:09","date_gmt":"2016-05-12T16:26:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.emilysentourage.org\/?p=4661"},"modified":"2023-12-20T04:49:52","modified_gmt":"2023-12-20T09:49:52","slug":"why-i-am-dyeing-my-hair-purple-in-may","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emilysentourage.org\/tr\/why-i-am-dyeing-my-hair-purple-in-may\/","title":{"rendered":"May\u0131s Ay\u0131nda Sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 Neden Mora Boyat\u0131yorum?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Zaman zaman EE toplulu\u011funun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olan konuk blog yazarlar\u0131n\u0131 blogumuza benzersiz sesleriyle katk\u0131da bulunmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in davet ediyoruz. Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn blog yazar\u0131 Rebecca Fox Starr, Emily'nin birinci s\u0131n\u0131ftan beri arkada\u015f\u0131 ve \u015fu adreste ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 blog yazar\u0131\u00a0Sonsuza Kadar Anne<\/a>.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

\"331053_10100135721260307_1614314394_o\"<\/p>\n

Merhaba, Entourage! Burada olmaktan, EE i\u00e7in yazmaktan b\u00fcy\u00fck onur duyuyorum. \u0130zin verirseniz kendimi tan\u0131tmak istiyorum.<\/p>\n

Benim ad\u0131m Becca ve 31 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir e\u015f, iki \u00e7ocuk annesi ve yazar\u0131m, blogger<\/a>dans partneri, \u015fark\u0131c\u0131\/s\u00f6z yazar\u0131 ve Emily's Entourage destek\u00e7isi ve sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 mora boyamak \u00fczereyim.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi, sa\u00e7lar\u0131mla e\u011flenceli \u015feyler yapmay\u0131 seviyorum; baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcr ruhlu oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6yleyebilir. (Tam bir y\u0131l \u00f6nce, Bermuda'daki bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u0131ras\u0131nda foto\u011fraf kabini dekoru olarak platin sar\u0131s\u0131 bir peruk takt\u0131ktan sonra, do\u011fal kahverengi sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131 olabildi\u011fince beyaza yak\u0131n bir renge boyad\u0131m. Oradan pembeye, sonra pembe alt\u0131na ge\u00e7tim ve y\u0131lba\u015f\u0131ndan bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nce sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131m\u0131n \u00fczerinde kestirdim).<\/p>\n

Ama bu farkl\u0131. May\u0131s ay\u0131 Kistik Fibrozis Fark\u0131ndal\u0131k ay\u0131 ve mor da KF fark\u0131ndal\u0131k rengi oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bu ay sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 mora boyuyorum.<\/p>\n

Emily i\u00e7in sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 mora boyuyorum.<\/p>\n

Emily's Entourage ger\u00e7ekten g\u00f6r\u00fclmesi inan\u0131lmaz bir olu\u015fum ve ben de Emily'nin kabilesinin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmaktan onur duyuyorum. Emily's Entourage'\u0131n son birka\u00e7 y\u0131lda nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmek... nefes kesiciydi ama tamamen d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmal\u0131y\u0131m: Emily's Entourage ile b\u00fcy\u00fcmek ne kadar harikaysa, onunla birlikte b\u00fcy\u00fcmek daha da harikayd\u0131. Emily<\/em>.<\/p>\n

\"Emily

Emily ve ben birinci s\u0131n\u0131ftaki foto\u011fraf\u0131m\u0131zda (ikisi de pembe, sa\u011fda)<\/p><\/div>\n

Emily ve ben birinci s\u0131n\u0131fta kolay ve yak\u0131n bir arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurduk. G\u00fczeldi, tatl\u0131l\u0131kla doluydu ve sadece bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u0131\u015f\u0131k topuydu. Bu imkans\u0131zd\u0131. de\u011fil <\/em>ona \u00e7ekilmek i\u00e7in. O zamanlar, annesi Liza ile \u00f6zel egzersizler yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini biliyordum (kendisi inan\u0131lmaz bir kad\u0131n ve ayr\u0131 bir blog yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n konusu olabilir) ama Emily'nin durumunun b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kavrayamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bu hem Emily'nin hem de ailesinin bir kan\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r. Bazen sabahtan ak\u015fama kadar oynard\u0131k ve her \u00e7ocu\u011fun tuvalet molas\u0131 vermek ya da ba\u011fc\u0131kl\u0131 spor ayakkab\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131kmak i\u00e7in durmas\u0131 gibi o da tedavisini yapmak i\u00e7in dururdu. Emily farkl\u0131 de\u011fildi. \u00d6zeldi, evet, ama bunun Kistik Fibrozis hastas\u0131 olmas\u0131yla hi\u00e7bir ilgisi yoktu.<\/p>\n

Bana g\u00f6re Emily'nin sevgi dolu bir tavr\u0131 vard\u0131 ve yan\u0131nda olmak \u00e7ok keyifliydi. Yunan dolmas\u0131n\u0131 ilk kez Emily'nin evinde tatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z karde\u015fimin kulaklar\u0131na t\u00fcp tak\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finde, annem sabah\u0131n erken saatlerinde beni Emily'nin evine b\u0131rakt\u0131. Emily'm hasta de\u011fildi. O benim arkada\u015f\u0131md\u0131. Ve yedi ya\u015f\u0131ndayken, sonra 17 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken ve sonra 27 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken (o ve ben do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fc karaoke ve su\u015fi e\u015fli\u011finde kutlamak i\u00e7in bir grupla d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda) \u00f6nemli olan buydu.<\/p>\n

\"EE

EE Power Yoga Etkinli\u011fi, 2012<\/p><\/div>\n

Emily's Entourage sayesinde Emily'nin durumu hakk\u0131nda \u00e7ok daha fazla \u015fey \u00f6\u011frendim. Bu d\u00fcnyada en \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim insanlardan birka\u00e7\u0131 Emily's Entourage Y\u00f6netim Kurulu'nda yer al\u0131yor ve bu nedenle bu ekstra \u00f6zel ki\u015fi ve aile hakk\u0131nda ekstra \u00f6zel bilgiler edindi\u011fimi hissediyorum. Her y\u0131l d\u00fczenledikleri muhte\u015fem etkinlikler beni daha da \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131yor (ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz y\u0131l kampanya videolar\u0131n\u0131 ve galadaki konu\u015fmalar\u0131n en az yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131ra h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131ra izledim) ve sadece elimden geldi\u011fince onu desteklemeye gelmiyorum, ayn\u0131 zamanda her g\u00fcn sessizce onun i\u00e7in tezah\u00fcrat yap\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Ama bazen benim i\u00e7in sessizlik yeterli olmuyor. EE etkinlikleri ne kadar harika olsa da, ne kadar ne\u015felensek ve kutlasak da, bunlar ac\u0131 verici bir ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin ay\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131d\u0131r. Bir blog yazar\u0131 olarak a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmle gurur duyuyorum, ancak bu yaz\u0131 yazmak zorunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m en zor yaz\u0131lardan biri. Sebebi de bu:<\/p>\n

Sevdi\u011finiz birinin ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmesini izlemek \u00e7ok zor. Beni yanl\u0131\u015f anlamay\u0131n. Emily'nin \u015fikayet etti\u011fini hi\u00e7 duymad\u0131m. Onu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde, nas\u0131l oldu\u011funu soruyor I <\/em>\u00e7ocuklar\u0131m ve hayat\u0131m hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fuyor ve kendi m\u00fccadeleleri, zorluklar\u0131 ya da s\u0131n\u0131rlamalar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmuyor. Ve bir arkada\u015f olarak, onu her g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde \"Ne kadar inan\u0131lmaz derecede harika ve ilham verici oldu\u011funu biliyor musun?\" demek ve ayn\u0131 zamanda m\u00fccadelelerine dikkat \u00e7ekmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak gibi hassas bir ipte y\u00fcr\u00fcmek istiyorum. Onu asla farkl\u0131 hissettirmek istemem. O o<\/em>Asl\u0131nda farkl\u0131, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131, ama asla onun kendini yaln\u0131z hissetmesini istemiyorum.<\/p>\n

Emily ve ben son 25 y\u0131lda \u00e7ok \u015fey payla\u015ft\u0131k (OMG 25 y\u0131l oldu!?) \u0130tiraf ediyorum: \u00d6nemli anlar\u0131n bir listesini yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m, ancak \u00e7ok uzad\u0131 ve bu y\u00fczden sizden sadece benim s\u00f6z\u00fcme g\u00fcvenmenizi isteyece\u011fim. Kelimelerden bahsetmi\u015fken, as\u0131l meseleme d\u00f6neyim.<\/p>\n

Her g\u00fcn EE ti\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcm\u00fc giyebilir ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma EE k\u0131yafetlerini giydirebilirim; m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funda Emily ve hikayesi hakk\u0131ndaki haberleri yayabilirim; her yar\u0131\u015fa ve partiye kat\u0131labilirim; ancak, i\u015fin \u00f6z\u00fcne indi\u011fimde, Kistik Fibrozisi tedavi edemem ve e\u011fer yapabilseydim, yapard\u0131m. Ve binlerce ki\u015finin aras\u0131nda bir s\u0131rada olurdum, hepsi Emily i\u00e7in oradayd\u0131, hepsi a\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00e7aresizlik ve sevgiyle.<\/p>\n

\"Narberth

Narberth CF ko\u015fusu, Nisan 2013, EE Y\u00f6netim Kurulu \u00dcyesi Jessica Rutstein Lazarus, o zamanlar \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan k\u0131z\u0131m ve o\u011fluma \u00fc\u00e7 ayl\u0131k hamileyken<\/p><\/div>\n

Peki, ne yapabilirim? Sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 boyayabilirim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 boyayarak, hayat\u0131n pek \u00e7ok ini\u015f ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yan\u0131mda olan bir arkada\u015f\u0131mla dayan\u0131\u015fma g\u00f6stermekle kalm\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 zamanda fark\u0131ndal\u0131k da yaratabiliyorum. Ben Tabii ki <\/em>Mor sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131n araba kuyru\u011funda sohbet konusu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131 insanlara Emily, KF ve Entourage hakk\u0131nda bilgi vermek i\u00e7in bir s\u0131\u00e7rama noktas\u0131 olarak kullanabilece\u011fimi. Gururla etrafta dola\u015fabilir ve aynaya her bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ya da sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 aceleyle at kuyru\u011fu yapmak i\u00e7in uzand\u0131\u011f\u0131mda Emily'yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirim. Hayal edebilece\u011fim en b\u00fcy\u00fck kalbe sahip kad\u0131na en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sevgi jestini yapabilirim.<\/p>\n

Emily bir kahraman. Emily bir sava\u015f\u00e7\u0131. Emily bana var oldu\u011funu bilmedi\u011fim bir g\u00fc\u00e7 g\u00f6sterdi. O bir insan\u00fcst\u00fc. Ve ayn\u0131 zamanda onunla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m ilk g\u00fcnden beri tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve sevdi\u011fim o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Emily'nin bir sembol\u00fcn\u00fc, bir g\u00fc\u00e7 sembol\u00fcn\u00fc, en b\u00fcy\u00fck sayg\u0131 ve hayranl\u0131k duydu\u011fum birini temsil eden bir onur rozeti olarak takabilirim. O \u00e7ok g\u00fczel, tatl\u0131l\u0131kla dolu ve (k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir insan bedeninde) b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k topu.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 mora boyuyorum.<\/p>\n

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From time to time we invite guest bloggers who are part of the EE community to contribute their unique voices to our blog. Today’s blog contributor is Rebecca Fox Starr, Emily’s friend since first grade and a lifestyle blogger at\u00a0Mommy Ever After.\u00a0 Hello, Entourage! I am so honored to be here, writing for EE. If… <\/p>\n

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