{"id":2410,"date":"2015-01-18T15:26:11","date_gmt":"2015-01-18T22:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lw.screammedia.net\/?p=2410"},"modified":"2018-02-15T14:58:00","modified_gmt":"2018-02-15T19:58:00","slug":"things-i-learned-in-my-20s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emilysentourage.org\/tr\/things-i-learned-in-my-20s\/","title":{"rendered":"20'li ya\u015flar\u0131mda \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fim \u015feyler"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ge\u00e7en hafta 30 ya\u015f\u0131ma girdim. Bu d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktas\u0131 kimsenin akl\u0131n\u0131 benimkinden daha fazla kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131. Buraya gelmeyi planlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan de\u011fil, ama 30 \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f hissettiriyor ve buraya nas\u0131l bu kadar h\u0131zl\u0131 geldi\u011fimi anlayam\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktas\u0131n\u0131n \u015ferefine, 20'li ya\u015flar\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m baz\u0131 dersleri payla\u015fmaya karar verdim (Tanr\u0131m, bunu yazarken bile kendimi ya\u015fl\u0131 hissediyorum). Bu hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde her \u015feyi \u00e7\u00f6zd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm anlam\u0131na gelmiyor. Sizi temin ederim ki \u00e7\u00f6zmedim, ama i\u015fte yol boyunca \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fim - ve hala \u00f6\u011frenmeye devam etti\u011fim - birka\u00e7 \u015fey.<\/p>\n

1. Kimse size bunu s\u00f6ylemez ama se\u00e7im yapmak korkutucudur. Bebek ad\u0131mlar\u0131 at\u0131n ve hi\u00e7bir karar\u0131n kal\u0131c\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilin.<\/p>\n

2. Sevdi\u011finiz insanlar\u0131n bunu ve nedenini bildiklerinden emin olun. Spesifik olun.<\/p>\n

3. 20'li ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z sosyal \u00e7evreniz i\u00e7in bir s\u00fczge\u00e7 gibidir. Sorun de\u011fil. Hay\u0131r, bu iyi. En iyiler y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131kar ve bu konsantrenin kal\u0131c\u0131 g\u00fcc\u00fc vard\u0131r, ancak s\u0131v\u0131 da \u00f6nemlidir. Fark\u0131 bilin, ikisinin de k\u0131ymetini bilin.<\/p>\n

4. \u0130nan\u00e7 s\u0131\u00e7ramalar\u0131 yap\u0131n. T\u00f6kezlemek ve d\u00fc\u015fmek sorun de\u011fil, ama sonra kay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 azalt\u0131n, derslerinizi \u00f6\u011frenin, aya\u011fa kalk\u0131n ve devam edin.<\/p>\n

5. B\u0131rak gitsin. Hay\u0131r, ama ger\u00e7ekten, b\u0131rak gitsin.<\/p>\n

6. Yine de tarih \u00f6nemlidir. Onu kucaklay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

7. \u0130lk i\u015fler s\u0131\u00e7rama noktalar\u0131d\u0131r. Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu taahh\u00fctte bulunmuyorsunuz, sadece bir ilk ad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

8. Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey mutlulu\u011funuzdan \u00f6d\u00fcn vermeye de\u011fmez. Hayat \u00e7ok k\u0131sa.<\/p>\n

9. Daha fazla su i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n

10. Sevdi\u011finiz i\u015fi yap\u0131n. Sevdi\u011finiz i\u015fte iyi olun. Sonra da sevdi\u011finiz \u015feyle kariyer yapman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulun.<\/p>\n

11. Sadece gel. Her zaman \u00f6nemlidir, s\u00f6z veriyorum.<\/p>\n

12. Uyku de\u011ferli ve s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 bir metad\u0131r. Tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n. (Edit\u00f6r notu: 30'lu ya\u015flar\u0131mda bu konuda \u00e7ok daha iyi olmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abal\u0131yorum)<\/em><\/p>\n

13. Birini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde ona s\u00f6yleyin.<\/p>\n

14. \u0130\u00e7inizden gelen o rahats\u0131z edici i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc biliyor musunuz? Bunu size s\u00f6ylemekten nefret ediyorum ama muhtemelen dinlemelisiniz.<\/p>\n

15. Kimse ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyor. Hepimiz kanatlan\u0131yoruz. Neredeyse her zaman. Sadece bunu \u00f6rtbas etmekte daha iyiyiz.<\/p>\n

16. Herkes evde pijamayla oturmay\u0131 tercih eder.<\/p>\n

17. G\u00fcnl\u00fck \u015famatam\u0131z\u0131n alt\u0131nda, g\u00fczel, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, yetenekli bedenlerimizin damarlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc yatar - kalplerimiz. B\u00fcy\u00fck, \u0131\u015f\u0131ldayan, a\u00e7\u0131k kalpler. \u0130nsanlar iyidir. \u0130nsanlar yard\u0131m etmek ister. Ve \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 bir \u015fekilde, bunu ger\u00e7ekten yapabilecek g\u00fcce sahibiz. Bu g\u00fcc\u00fc kullan\u0131n. Hep birlikte y\u00fckselece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n

Peki, siz ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz? Kat\u0131l\u0131yor musunuz yoksa kat\u0131lm\u0131yor musunuz? Eklemek istedi\u011finiz bir \u015fey var m\u0131?<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Last week, I turned 30. Nobody\u2019s mind was more blown by this milestone than mine. It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t plan to get here, but 30 just feels so grown up and I can\u2019t grasp how I got here so fast. So in honor of this milestone, I decided to share some of my takeaways… <\/p>\n

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